Scattered Around the World

Rob Foxell and I had a discussion recently about the advantages and disadvantages making friends around the world. Rob is English, and like me, he has done several programs abroad where he has made many good friends. Sometimes it makes me sad: I develop deep friendships with people, and then after separation, I wonder if we'll ever see each other again.
Fifty years ago, people often lived in the same place for most of their lives, and a move was a defining event. Thus the people who attended your graduation went to your marriage, and possibly your funeral! Today, our relationships are scattered around the world, and we are forced to communicate with our friends with skype, messenger, and facebook. This bothers me a lot, and sometimes I hunger for deeper relationships with more permanence. Yet Rob reminded me that as travel becomes cheaper and more common, this we will see each other often. Also, he brought up that using technology, we can support more relationships. It is said that we can only have 12 deep friends, and around 100 other acquaintances. Today, I think that is changing. I keep in touch with hundreds of acquaintances, and I have more than 12 close friends. Applications like facebook allow us to know what's happening with our friends no matter where they are. Skype allows us to talk with them for free wherever there is an internet connection.

Here's an example: last week I went to Monterrey, Mexico for a few days with a group from my church. Though I've never spent time there before, I already had good friends there. Above is Luly Uribe, a student at the Tech in Monterrey. We studied together in Paris at the Alliance Française. We became quite close over after-class coffees and weekend excursions around Paris. Though I haven't seen her since May 2006, I have kept in touch with her via occasional phone calls and messages on facebook. Further more, I have spent time with Christopher, a friend of Luly's from Monterrey. Christopher is studying in Boulder, and we've spent a few weekends together in Denver and up in mountains.
Despite its disadvantages, I'd rather have my friends scattered around the world. Though we don't get to see each other as often as I'd like, our relationships are deepened through cross-cultural experiences. Technology helps us maintain these friendships, and cheaper travel lets us spend time together - despite the distance.
(i can't believe I just wrote something cheesy!)Labels: mexico, muse, technology
Cruz Verde

Last week we stayed at the Prats 's house in Magdalena Contreras. It's near Vista Hermosa, the house I lived in as a child. I don't remember the streets well, but since my brother, Joel was there, we took an afternoon to walk around the old streets. Vista Hermosa is on the street Cruz Verde. In the picture above, I'm walking up the (very steep) Cruz Verde. On a clear day when there's not much pollution, you can see downtown Mexico City from there.

Cruz Verde seems to have changed a lot. It's more modern, and there are more privadas - or private neighborhoods. Vista Hermosa is destroyed, and in its place are five apartments. I spoke with the gatekeeper, who assures me he sees my dog Joya's ghost at night. Joya died from rat poison when I was four or five years old. What freaked me out was that he knew exactly where she was buried.
I'm back home for the week ... It's finals. My last class ends at 15h30 next Tuesday, and I'll fly out to Maryland at 18h30 to work for Speak*New*Words* for a week. I'll come back for a week and then will leave for Paris/Barcelone on the 17th of May. Should be a busy month!
In other news, I'm worth 6 921 200€. haha...
Je vaux 6 921 200 € sur HumainAVendre.com, et vous ?Labels: france, mexico, travel
Random Thoughts and Happenings

Monsieur Pierre-Elie Robert is putting out some amazing photos lately. Please check them out. He has some great venues for photography, and his subjects are always lively. He did a series at Montmartre, at La Défense, and at the Château de Saint Germain en Laye. My favourite is one he took of his brother Alban. He's riding his bike through the park, and there is something amazing about the photo. The bleak background, the ancient park, and the young child riding his bike. (btw, I'm supposed to VJ at Pierre Elie's 18th next June! be there. ;) )
Next, Dan Hames has been recording this week. :D Enough said.
My life? It's been busy the last few weeks. I'm in my third week of classes. My classes this semester are Calculus II, English Comp II, Public Communication, and Art History II, and so far it looks like Calc and Art will be my hardest classes. Actually, I'm supposed to be writing a paper about linear perspective in the early renaissance right now. whups...
Other news: I think I'm going to Mexico in February. I'll probably only be in the DF and maybe GDL. A group from the church is going, and we'll probably be there about ten days.
Finally, I have a new nephew! Simeon Michael Ryan was born last Friday. He's beautiful, and is just now starting to leave his house.
ok... I have to go!
cheers.Labels: art, mexico, school
Latino Power
I was looking through the recent Oscar nominations, and I was (pleasantly) surprised to see all the Latinos nominated this year. Spanish is less and less of foreign language in mainstream culture, and in the US, it's becoming more and more the other main language.
In English class, my professor said that 'foreign' words are italicized. This rather offended me. What is foreign? Spanish isn't a foreign language in the US, and since half the babies born today, it may well be the first language of the half the student population in twenty year.
The fact that Alejandro Gonzalez Inarritu, Guillermo del Toro, Alfonso Cuaron, Adriana Barraza and Guillermo Arriaga (all Mexican) were nominated for main awards shows that in the arts, Latino culture is gaining influence. Plus there's Almodóvar and Penelope Cruz (Spanish) who also have a film that received a nomination.
Last year, I started to notice how important Latino arts in the world. Gasolina was played at every party in Paris, and everyone seemed to have mastered reggaeton grinding. La Camisa Negra was constantly on the radio, and every girl wearing a black shirt loved to dance to the song. ;)
Here in the US, a girl from Chihuahua recently told me that in the middle school 'Ahora a los gringos le gusta RBD'. Even preppy Mexican pop music is gaining popularity.
Anyway ... Just a muse on Latino culture.Labels: culture, mexico, muse